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                   Practicality Inspired 19th Century Milam Co. Brides
                      by Jeanne Williams - Temple Daily Telegram
                                    June 27, 2011

CAMERON — If there was one statement to be made by wedding fashions in the Milam County
Historical Museum, it would be that not all brides wore traditional white, nor were
they married in June, the customary month for nuptials.

The traditional something old, new, borrowed and blue also did not seem to be on the
minds of pragmatic Milam County brides of the 19th and early 20th centuries.

One of the oldest vintage wedding gowns donated to the museum is a brown silk taffeta
brocade dress worn by the bride of E.Y. Terral, a former Milam County judge and
Confederate Army officer, Museum Director Charles King said.

The hand-sewn, two-piece suit-like dress was decorative, with ruffles flowing around
the top and  skirt.  But  the  gown  contained a secret. A shortage of the costly
fabric apparently inspired the seamstress to piece a cotton plaid around the skirt
waist to make sure the hemline was of modest length, and the jacket covered up the
plaid inset.

Another antique bridal gown in the museum attests of another practical, but fashionable
bride who chose a wedding dress that could be worn at other events, King said. This
light-colored dress was machine sewn on fabric decorated with small flowers, though its
design was a fancy convection of ruffles that adorned a bride with an exceptionally
tiny waist.

A bride of 1912, however, stood with her intended in an actual white, lacy wedding 
gown. Her entire embroidered ensemble — from decorative, matching unmentionables to the
dress embellished with handmade lace — showed either doting parents or a wedding of
financial means, King said.

Her trousseau would never double as a Sunday dress. Her wedding clothes not only
included shoes bought from a New York shop on Sixth Avenue but a dainty fan and long,
kidgloves. Somehow, the multi-layered finery fit together into haute couture that fit
this tiny-sized, September bride.

Whether the dress was a wedding hand-me-down or heirloom dress “with more than one
wedding under its belt” also is an unsolved question, King said. This dress for its age
is in very poor condition, with only the handwork holding together pieces.

Brides of rural Texas in the 1800s and early 20th century “wore their best Sunday dress
and that is what they married in,” King said. “Unless they were wealthy, they didn’t
invest in anything they couldn’t wear again.”

Weddings took place in homes, or in small country churches, King said.

“It was a more of a hands-on thing, not like the humongous weddings we have now.”

Twentieth century brides walked down the aisle as a vision in white fine fabric, and as
families prospered, gowns were more elaborate, including one dress made of bias-cut
satin with beading decorating the neckline, and another with a long train suggestive of
a royal wedding.

In simpler pioneer times, before elaborate floral arrangements and expensive catering
services, people turned to materials easily available, said Lois Myers, a senior
lecturer at Baylor University’s Institute for Oral History.

The institute records and digitizes historical accounts, among them people’s memories
of their ancestors or family lore. One contributor recalled a wedding in Uvalde County
for which a guest had no money for a wedding gift.

“Instead, his gift was to decorate the church with wildflowers,” Myers said. “These
days, we go to a lot of trouble with catering, but then they did things like have a
dance in the barn.”

A simple wedding dress would have been more practical than a frothy, white lacy one,
Myers said.

The simplicity had enough charm that some brides today opt for vintage weddings, with
family heirlooms or old family photographs as centerpieces, and perhaps items of
clothing worn by ancestors.

Kay Gerhardt Jay, director of historical textiles and apparel collections for the
University of Texas at Austin, said in a general manner, weddings of that and all eras
really have demanded the best the bride could afford.

Throughout history and up to the present, there is great varance in brides and their
dresses. The modern wedding era is dated from the wedding of Queen Victoria in 1840,
Jay said.

She wore all white supposedly to use some lace she had. It is probably the availability
of photography that should be most credited with the adoption of white. So many people
were able to actually “see” her dress. Since royalty had long set the style, it is not
shocking that her choice had a great impact.

The history of costumes is interesting in part because of the mysteries, Jay said. Each
garment was worn by an individual.

“Surely our choices are often influenced by social custom, but individual preference
and values also come in play,” Jay said. “It is interesting to think that many brides
were married this very day in other than ‘traditional’ white gowns and veils and the
reasons for their choices, when others look at the pictures years from now, may not be
known.”

The choices of 19th century Milam County brides may have been pragmatic and pretty, but
little did they realize that their 21st century counterparts would adopt their color
schemes rather than white.

Jay Yoo, assistant professor at Baylor University’s department of family and consumer
science, said traditions may have changed, but wedding dresses of a color other than
white are cropping up again.

“About half of award-winning fashion designer Vera Wang’s bridal gown collection has
color components, and 20 percent of wedding gowns sold at David’s Bridal, a nationwide
bridal retailer, are color,” Yoo said.

“Color is the simplest and least costly product change to implement because it does not
require new design, fabric or materials.”
jwilliams@tdtnews.com
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A Victorian doll dressed in white models a wedding gown of the era.

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